Remember the day you first met your mate; it was magical or maybe awkward (but I digress). For me, it was my husband’s smile, the way he carried himself, and that fact that he thought I was gorgeous! While we were dating I loved all the little things my husband did. I loved his clothes, his ideas, and most of all I loved him.
So why ladies, once we are married we try to change our men?
Today was a prime example of; Mrs. Wilson trying to change her man’s sense of style. I pride myself on being very fashion forward. I read all of the magazines, know all of the “it” colors for the season, and for goodness sake I shun all who wear white after Labor Day. So my opinion should be very valuable.
My husband’s style is baggy jeans, oversized shirt, perfectly white sneakers and a fresh cut. My style is Banana Republic, Kenneth Cole shoes, expensive handbag, with a modest hairdo. Our styles seem to clash. But my husband being the reasonable person that he is (me totally unreasonable) agrees that during the work week he will succumb to the Banana Republic way of life (he even has his own credit card) but he insist the weekends are his time to shine. I said okay to this but every Saturday and Sunday it is the same thing; “why are you wearing that”, “do those sneakers go”, aren’t your jeans to big”.
So ladies is it me? Do I need to change? Or am I really trying to help society overall?
I need your help!!!